你心目中的理想生活是什么樣?
What is your idea of an Ideal Life?
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網(wǎng)友：嗯，理想的生活。
首先，讓我告訴你根據(jù)谷歌對(duì)“理想”這個(gè)詞的定義是什么:
1. 完美的: 滿足某人對(duì)完美的概念; 最合適。
2. 只存在于想象中的; 理想的或完美的，但不可能成為現(xiàn)實(shí)......
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What is your idea of an Ideal Life?
你心目中的理想生活是什么樣?
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Ideal Life. Hmm.
Firstly, let me tell you what according to Google are the definitions of the word ‘ideal’ :
1. Satisfying one's conception of what is perfect; most suitable.
2. Existing only in the imagination; desirable or perfect but not likely to become a reality .
So yeah, according to Google the word ‘ideal’ is difficult to achieve. But it also says it is achievable, conceptually. So I will tell you about the ‘ideal’ life in my conception in the following two categories.
Ideal Professional life is when:
You wake up in the morning with purpose, and go to sleep at night with satisfaction.
When work is not a burden; it’s a playtime and when it doesn’t matter - whether the watch shows 9 a.m. or 9 p.m.
When you have a ‘Best employee of the year’ award on your shelf and also have a drawing sheet of your daughter with a caption ‘My daddy/mom is the best’ - hung on your wall.
When you look forward to Mondays as much as you look forward to weekends.
When your colleagues are your friends.
When you are comfortable where you are, but you are working hard for much better things.
When you never stop learning.
嗯，理想的生活。
首先，讓我告訴你根據(jù)谷歌對(duì)“理想”這個(gè)詞的定義是什么:
1. 完美的: 滿足某人對(duì)完美的概念; 最合適。
2. 只存在于想象中的; 理想的或完美的，但不可能成為現(xiàn)實(shí)。
所以，根據(jù)谷歌，“理想”這個(gè)詞很難實(shí)現(xiàn)。但它也表示，從概念上講，這是可以實(shí)現(xiàn)的。所以我將在以下兩個(gè)類別中告訴你我心中的“理想”生活。
理想的職業(yè)生活是:
你早上帶著目標(biāo)醒來(lái)，晚上帶著滿足入睡。
工作不是負(fù)擔(dān); 這是一個(gè)游戲時(shí)間，什么時(shí)候并不重要——無(wú)論手表顯示的是上午9點(diǎn)還是晚上9點(diǎn)。
你的書架上有一個(gè)“年度最佳員工”獎(jiǎng)，墻上還掛著一張你女兒的畫冊(cè)，上面寫著“我的爸爸/媽媽是最好的”。
你期待周一就像期待周末一樣。
你的同事是你的朋友。
你在舒適的地方，但你正在為更好的事情努力工作。
你永不停止學(xué)習(xí)。
When you are admired for your talents than your looks and riches.
When it really doesn’t take much to make you happy. You derive happiness from the simplest of things.
When you bloom like the flowers of the spring, and let go of the things that no longer nurture you like the leaves of the autumn. And pull yourself together in between.
When you have more friends you can talk to at night 2 a.m., than the online friends who send ‘Happy birthday’ wishes because of a notification.
When your conscious is clear about all the decisions you have made in your life.
When your life is not ‘only’ about daylight worries and midnight feelings.
When you actually live life, not put up with life.
When you give more, take less, expect nothing.
When you have made a tough decision that left you baffled but yet you could sleep peacefully at night - when you know you have made the right decision.
When notifications from Quora make you happy than Facebook notifications.
When you reach the finish line- you achieve your biggest victory, you have people to high-five with.
In general, ‘ideal’ life is something that makes you feel content, and that sets your soul at ease.
理想的個(gè)人生活是:
你的才華比你的容貌和財(cái)富更受人尊敬的時(shí)候。
其實(shí)不需要太多就能讓你快樂(lè)。你從最簡(jiǎn)單的事情中獲得快樂(lè)。
你像春天的花朵一樣綻放，放手那些不再滋養(yǎng)你的東西，像秋天的樹葉一樣。在兩者之間振作起來(lái)。
你有更多的朋友可以在凌晨2點(diǎn)交談，而不是因?yàn)橥ㄖl(fā)送“生日快樂(lè)”祝福的在線朋友。
你的意識(shí)清楚你在生活中所做的所有決定時(shí)。
你的生活不僅僅是白天的煩惱和午夜的感覺(jué)。
你真正地生活，而不是忍受生活。
你付出更多，索取更少，不期待什么。
你做了一個(gè)讓你困惑的艱難決定，但你知道你已經(jīng)做出了正確的決定，你可以在晚上安然入睡。
來(lái)自Quora的通知比FB的通知更讓你開心。
你到達(dá)終點(diǎn)線時(shí)——你獲得了最大的勝利，你可以和別人擊掌。
一般來(lái)說(shuō)，“理想”的生活會(huì)讓你感到滿足，讓你的靈魂放松。
To me your life is ideal if-
1. You are at peace with who you are.
2. You are at peace with what you have.
3. Temptations of the world fail to rock you.
4. You are a part of the world, but you have your world within you.
5. You do things because you want to do, not to impress anyone.
6. You are very clear about your priorities in life. You know "when", "what" and "whom" to say no to.
對(duì)我來(lái)說(shuō)，你的生活是理想的，如果
1. 你能和真實(shí)的自己和平相處。
2. 你能坦然面對(duì)你所擁有的。
3.世界上的各種誘惑都無(wú)法撼動(dòng)你。
4. 你是世界的一部分，但你的世界在你心中。
5. 你做事是因?yàn)槟阆胱觯皇菫榱私o別人留下好印象。
6. 你很清楚你生活中的優(yōu)先事項(xiàng)。你知道“何時(shí)”、“什么”和“誰(shuí)”該拒絕。
life is to live and enjoy so dont live ur life by seeing perfect, only on movies or story books it is possible, not in real life:)
生活就是活著和享受，所以不要把你的生活看得完美，完美只有在電影或故事書中才可能，在現(xiàn)實(shí)生活中是不可能的。
Perception of ideal life varies for every person
For a poor person who struggles for daily bread, a life with basic needs such as food, shelter and clothing is ideal life.
For an orphan kid, living with parents is an ideal life.
For a rape victim, getting married is an ideal life.
For an acid attack victim, life without struggles is an ideal life.
For people with health issues, living a stress free healthy life is an ideal life.
For a cancer patient, living without painful chemotherapy sessions is an ideal life.
For a cancer survivor, living healthy without cancer relapse is an ideal life.
For a human trafficking victim, escaping from the darkness and leading a peaceful life is an ideal life.
For a widow/divorcee, remarrying a right person and starting the life journey ahead is an ideal life.
For a single mom/dad, raising their kids and securing a stable life to them is an ideal life.
For Syrians and victims of terrorism, leading a peaceful life is an ideal life.
According to me “An ideal life is living happily the present moment with complete satisfaction”!!!
Smiles and Cheers :-)
每個(gè)人對(duì)理想生活的看法都不相同
對(duì)于一個(gè)為日常生計(jì)而掙扎的窮人來(lái)說(shuō)，有衣食住行等基本需求的生活是理想的生活。
對(duì)于一個(gè)孤兒來(lái)說(shuō)，和父母一起生活是一種理想的生活。
對(duì)于強(qiáng)奸受害者來(lái)說(shuō)，結(jié)婚是一種理想的生活。
對(duì)于被硫酸攻擊的受害者來(lái)說(shuō)，沒(méi)有斗爭(zhēng)的生活就是理想的生活。
對(duì)于有健康問(wèn)題的人來(lái)說(shuō)，沒(méi)有壓力的健康生活是一種理想的生活。
對(duì)于癌癥患者來(lái)說(shuō)，沒(méi)有痛苦的化療是一種理想的生活。
對(duì)于癌癥幸存者來(lái)說(shuō)，健康生活而不復(fù)發(fā)是一種理想的生活。
對(duì)于人口販賣受害者來(lái)說(shuō)，逃離黑暗，過(guò)上平靜的生活才是理想的生活。
對(duì)于寡婦/離婚者來(lái)說(shuō)，與合適的人再婚并開始未來(lái)的人生旅程是一種理想的生活。
對(duì)于單身媽媽/爸爸來(lái)說(shuō)，撫養(yǎng)孩子并確保他們過(guò)上穩(wěn)定的生活是一種理想的生活。
對(duì)敘利亞人和恐怖主義受害者來(lái)說(shuō)，過(guò)和平生活是一種理想的生活。
按照我的說(shuō)法，“理想的生活就是幸福地活在當(dāng)下”！
An ideal life is when you are honest to yourself. You share what you know, nothing mix, or duplicity.
You are compassionate towards everyone. You just give what you have.
You are living a balance life, you are content with what you have.
Sharing with you a beautiful story.
There is a beautiful story about Saint Kabir. Once a lady with her young child came to Saint Kabir and complained that her son had the habit of eating lot of Jaggery everyday. Saint Kabir told her to come after a week.
Upon the lady’s return after a week, Saint Kabir told the boy to give up the habit of eating Jaggery. The lady was surprised to hear this and asked Saint Kabir, “You could have said this when we had come earlier”?
Saint Kabir clarified to the lady, “How could I advise your son not to eat Jaggery when I used to eat it myself at that time? Therefore these last seven days I practiced to stay without eating Jaggery, so I could advise your son to do the same!”
Here Saint Kabir showing his greatness, he advised when he got rid of his habit..
Otherwise, we can find many people they try to be great advisor, but they itself don’t follow such advice.
理想的生活就是對(duì)自己誠(chéng)實(shí)。你分享你所知道的，不要混為一談或口是心非。
你對(duì)每個(gè)人都很有同情心。你只要付出你所擁有的。
你過(guò)著平衡的生活，你對(duì)你所擁有的感到滿足。
與你分享一個(gè)美好的故事。
有一個(gè)關(guān)于圣卡比爾的美麗故事。有一次，一位女士帶著年幼的孩子來(lái)到圣卡比爾，抱怨她的兒子每天都吃很多棕櫚糖。圣卡比爾告訴她一周后再來(lái)。
一周后，這位女士回來(lái)后，圣卡比爾告訴男孩放棄吃棕櫚糖的習(xí)慣。這位女士聽到這個(gè)消息很驚訝，問(wèn)圣卡比爾：“我們?cè)缧r(shí)候來(lái)的時(shí)候，你本可以這么說(shuō)的？”
圣卡比爾向這位女士解釋道：“我當(dāng)時(shí)自己也吃棕櫚糖，我怎么能建議你兒子不要吃呢？因此，在過(guò)去的七天里，我練習(xí)不吃棕櫚糖，所以我可以建議你兒子也這樣做！”
圣卡比爾在這里展示了他的偉大，當(dāng)他改掉習(xí)慣時(shí)，他建議道。
否則，我們會(huì)發(fā)現(xiàn)許多人試圖成為偉大的顧問(wèn)，但他們自己卻不聽從這樣的建議。
Having the ability to spend my time doing what I love, adventuring as much as possible, building and maintaining powerful relationships while experiencing personal growth regularly.
有能力花時(shí)間做我喜歡的事情，盡可能地冒險(xiǎn)，建立和保持強(qiáng)大的人際關(guān)系，個(gè)人不斷成長(zhǎng)。
To have an ideal life there is no fixed formula as such, but yeah on the basis of my personal experience and learning, I can tell few points which I believe are important to have life which can be called ideal:
Trust your family rather to trust an outsider: Yes, it is true trust family more than any body else because whatever they say they say on the basis of their experience and whatever they have seen since they are there before us. At times it may look that an outsider is the one we were searching for, but it will always end up to be an illusion. We should never at any point ignore this truth that they carry much more experience than us.
Listen to your gut feeling and trust it: your gut feeling never lies, mostly it doesn’t listen to it. If before doing anything it says no listen to it and think twice before indulging into any matter.
Never indulge in bad habits like drinking/smoking/ drugs etc. even for the sake of friendship or to come out of some painful event do not indulge in such habits, there is nothing fruitful in it. We should never forget this ‘Addiction of anything is bad at the end’. No true friend on the earth would want you to have bad habits.
Have a real relationship: do not indulge into multiple relationships or time pass relations. Just have true relation with the person wherein you can say yes this is the one I can spend my whole life with. Love is the most essential ingredient for an ideal life. People who have great bonding with their partners are seen to grow exponentially compared to those who are more talented but struggling in their personal lives.
Do not trust anyone blindly: Trust is an important aspect of life but these days it is broken like hell, think thousands of time before trusting anyone. Just don’t trust anyone like that.
擁有理想的生活沒(méi)有固定的公式，但是根據(jù)我個(gè)人的經(jīng)驗(yàn)和學(xué)習(xí)，我可以說(shuō)幾點(diǎn)我認(rèn)為擁有可以稱為理想的生活很重要的幾點(diǎn)：
相信你的家人而不是相信一個(gè)局外人：是的，這是真正。信任家人勝過(guò)信任任何其他人，因?yàn)闊o(wú)論他們說(shuō)什么，他們都是基于他們的經(jīng)驗(yàn)和他們?cè)谖覀冎八娝劦摹?有時(shí)，我們可能會(huì)覺(jué)得自己在尋找的是一個(gè)局外人，但這最終都只是一種錯(cuò)覺(jué)。 我們?cè)谌魏螘r(shí)候都不應(yīng)忽視這個(gè)事實(shí)，即他們比我們擁有更多的經(jīng)驗(yàn)。
傾聽你的直覺(jué)并相信它：你的直覺(jué)從不說(shuō)謊，大多數(shù)時(shí)候它不會(huì)去聽。如果在做任何事情之前，它說(shuō)不，那么在沉迷于任何事情之前三思而后行。
永遠(yuǎn)不要沉迷于諸如飲酒/吸煙/吸毒等壞習(xí)慣。即使是為了友誼或是為了擺脫一些痛苦的事件，也不要沉迷于這些習(xí)慣，因?yàn)樗鼈儾粫?huì)帶來(lái)任何成效。我們永遠(yuǎn)不應(yīng)該忘記“對(duì)任何事情上癮最終都是不好的”這句話。地球上沒(méi)有一個(gè)真正的朋友希望你有壞習(xí)慣。
擁有一段真正的關(guān)系：不要沉迷于多重關(guān)系或時(shí)間流逝的關(guān)系。只要與你能說(shuō)“是”的人建立真正的關(guān)系，這就是我能與之共度一生的人。愛(ài)情是理想生活中最重要的組成部分。與那些更有才華但在個(gè)人生活中掙扎的人相比，與伴侶關(guān)系融洽的人成長(zhǎng)速度會(huì)呈指數(shù)級(jí)增長(zhǎng)。
不要盲目地信任任何人：信任是生活的一個(gè)重要方面，但現(xiàn)在它已經(jīng)像地獄一樣破碎了，在相信任何人之前要三思。不要那樣相信任何人。
Do have passion but do not leave your job in sway: Everyone wants to live his/her passion, but it can be disastrous sometimes when you leave your good paying job for your passion. I am not negative here, it’s just a suggestion before you think this way, that’s all.
DO NOT LEND MONEY TO ANYONE: Yes, this is the most important of all, if you really really want to have good relations with people, do not lend money ever. Money is not the root of evil but yeah it shows the person’s true character and you feel ditched.
SAVE MONEY: It doesn’t matter how much you earn but make it a point that you save money. You will find n number of reasons to spend and all the reason would be alluring enough to you but trust me man, when you actually go through your worst time only money can save you. No friend, no relative, nobody would ever show up in your worst. But your financial stability will give you that peace of mind which you would want in that period.
勤勉地選擇你的朋友：嗯，即使在一起多年，也很難理解任何人。這并不容易，但我們還是應(yīng)該盡量不要過(guò)早地信任任何人。
要有激情，但不要讓你的工作搖擺不定：每個(gè)人都想活出自己的激情，但當(dāng)你為了激情而離開高薪工作時(shí)，有時(shí)可能會(huì)是災(zāi)難性的。我并不是否定你的觀點(diǎn)，這只是在你這么想之前的一個(gè)建議，僅此而已。
不要借錢給任何人：是的，這是最重要的，如果你真的想與人保持良好的關(guān)系，永遠(yuǎn)不要借錢給別人。金錢不是罪惡的根源，但它顯示了一個(gè)人的真實(shí)性格，你會(huì)覺(jué)得被拋棄了。
省錢：你掙多少錢并不重要，但一定要省錢。你會(huì)找到N個(gè)花錢的理由，所有這些理由對(duì)你來(lái)說(shuō)都很有吸引力，但相信我，伙計(jì)，當(dāng)你真的經(jīng)歷了最糟糕的時(shí)候，只有錢能救你。沒(méi)有朋友，沒(méi)有親戚，沒(méi)有人會(huì)在你最糟糕的時(shí)候出現(xiàn)。但你的財(cái)務(wù)穩(wěn)定會(huì)讓你在那段時(shí)間里心平氣和。
Spend time with family and kids: spend quality time with your loved ones, it releases stress and kids are the stress busters.
Do not talk about problems while eating food: Whatever you talk about while eating, trust that you are consuming that too with your food. Talk only positive things or do not talk at all. Problems are never ending and are part and parcel of life, never carry them at your dinner table. It worsen your situation and nothing else.
Do not blame others for your problems: Learn to take the responsibility of your life and your problems.
Frustration/Anger/ Overthinking is no solution: Learn that frustration, anger, overthinking are no solution to any of your problem they just multiply your problems. #Be cool.
Don’t take life too seriously: Everything else is good, take life easy. Enjoy and go with the flow. Don’t harm anyone for your benefits. Smile a lot it costs nothing and try to make others smile daily.
Thanks!
制定良好的儲(chǔ)蓄計(jì)劃：儲(chǔ)蓄應(yīng)始終放在第一位，而不是最后一位。大多數(shù)人只有在支出之后才打算存錢，然后他們就有足夠的理由不存錢了。
花時(shí)間與家人和孩子在一起：花時(shí)間與你愛(ài)的人在一起，這會(huì)釋放壓力，而孩子是壓力的克星。
不要在吃東西的時(shí)候談?wù)搯?wèn)題：無(wú)論你在吃東西的時(shí)候談?wù)撌裁?，相信你在吃東西的時(shí)候也在談?wù)撨@些問(wèn)題。只談積極的事情，或者干脆不談。問(wèn)題是永遠(yuǎn)不會(huì)結(jié)束的，是生活中不可缺少的一部分，不要在餐桌上提到它們。它只會(huì)讓你的情況更糟。
不要因?yàn)槟愕膯?wèn)題責(zé)怪別人：學(xué)會(huì)對(duì)自己的生活和問(wèn)題負(fù)責(zé)。
沮喪/憤怒/過(guò)度思考并不能解決問(wèn)題：要知道，沮喪、憤怒、過(guò)度思考并不能解決你的任何問(wèn)題，它們只會(huì)讓你的問(wèn)題成倍增加。冷靜點(diǎn)。
不要把生活看得太重：其他的一切都很好，輕松地對(duì)待生活。享受并順其自然。不要為了你的利益而傷害任何人。多微笑，這不需要任何代價(jià)，試著讓別人每天都微笑。
謝謝
In my opinion, an ideal lifestyle is one that brings to you a lot of positivity. It should be such that at the end of the day you feel productive, relaxed and contented… So anything that adds up positivity to your daily rituals ultimately ends up making your lifestyle an ideal one…
However the concept of “ideal” is very subjective.. it varies from person to person.. A lifestyle which is ideal for one might not be ideal for someone else.. For example someone might feel waking up early is an essential part of an ideal life, whereas to some others working till late night gives a sense of being highly productive making his/her lifestyle an ideal one..
So basically, any lifestyle that keeps you HAPPY and HEALTHY is an ideal one..
在我看來(lái)，理想的生活方式是給你帶來(lái)很多積極的東西。這應(yīng)該是這樣的，在一天結(jié)束的時(shí)候，你會(huì)感到富有成效、放松和滿足……因此，任何能給你的日常生活增加積極性的事情最終都會(huì)使你的生活方式成為理想的生活方式。
然而，“理想”的概念是非常主觀的。它因人而異。對(duì)一個(gè)人來(lái)說(shuō)理想的生活方式可能對(duì)另一個(gè)人來(lái)說(shuō)并不理想。例如，有些人可能會(huì)覺(jué)得早起是理想生活的重要組成部分，而有些人工作到深夜會(huì)給人一種高效的感覺(jué)，使他/她的生活方式成為理想的生活方式。
因此，基本上，任何讓你快樂(lè)和健康的生活方式都是理想的。
Doing something I love, surrounded by friends and family.
Perhaps travelling the world and immersing myself in new cultures, helping in poor parts of the World and generally making a positive difference somehow.
做自己喜歡的事，身邊有朋友和家人。
也許是周游世界，讓自己沉浸在新的文化中，幫助世界上的貧困地區(qū)，以某種方式做出積極的改變。
Ideal life is being where you want to be, with who you want to be with, doing what you want to do.
My ideal life is being self-employed, with two home schooled kids, and retired husband, slowly traveling the world and visiting all of our friends and family. We've already tasted it before.
And now we are a bit stuck in place because our youngest went to kindergarten. His dad promised that if he beats him in chess, he can quit kindergarten. So, I'm cheering for the little one. He tries every night.
理想的生活是在你想呆的地方，和你想要的人在一起，做你想做的事。
我理想中的生活是自己當(dāng)老板，兩個(gè)在家上學(xué)的孩子和退休的丈夫，慢慢地周游世界，拜訪我們所有的朋友和家人。我們之前已經(jīng)嘗試過(guò)了
現(xiàn)在我們有點(diǎn)原地踏步，因?yàn)槲覀冏钚〉暮⒆由狭擞變簣@。他爸爸承諾，如果他下棋贏了他，他就可以從幼兒園退學(xué)。所以，我為這個(gè)小家伙歡呼。他每晚都試。
It’s hard for me to imagine an ideal life, most of the time I don’t think a good life is even possible for me anymore.
An ideal life would entail me becoming a completely different person, one who has passions, can move on from the past, has confidence and self esteem, who actually has a place they want to go in life. I can’t really imagine being such a person, but I think that my life would be ideal if I had traits like those. If I was that kind of person I would be able to get an ideal life, or at least pretty close.
我很難想象一個(gè)理想的生活，大多數(shù)時(shí)候我認(rèn)為一個(gè)好的生活對(duì)我來(lái)說(shuō)甚至是不可能的。
理想的生活應(yīng)該讓我變成一個(gè)完全不同的人，一個(gè)有激情的人，一個(gè)能從過(guò)去中走出來(lái)的人，一個(gè)有自信和自尊的人，一個(gè)在生活中有自己想要去的地方的人。我真的無(wú)法想象成為這樣的人，但我認(rèn)為如果我有這些特質(zhì)，我的生活將是理想的。如果我是那種人，我就能過(guò)上理想的生活，或者至少是非常接近理想的生活。
Growing up with my grandparents, I've learned to appreciate the simple things life has to offer.
We are living in the countryside and my grandparents had carabaos, ducks, goats and currently only have chickens, and dogs. Most people here make a living through farming and so our place is surrounded by paddy fields, sugarcane plantations, corn plantations, and such.
Aside from those, the people here are all friendly and will lend a helping hand whenever needed without asking for payments (aside from working on other's farms). We are used to sharing food and anything if we have it.
And what I appreciate here the most is whenever it is my birthday when I go out, people would greet me when I’m not even telling anyone that it's my birthday.
在與祖父母一起長(zhǎng)大的過(guò)程中，我學(xué)會(huì)了欣賞生活所能提供的簡(jiǎn)單的東西。
我們住在鄉(xiāng)下，我的祖父母養(yǎng)過(guò)水牛、鴨子、山羊，現(xiàn)在只養(yǎng)雞和狗。這里的大多數(shù)人都以務(wù)農(nóng)為生，所以我們這里周圍都是稻田、甘蔗種植園、玉米種植園等等。
除此之外，這里的人都很友好，在任何需要的時(shí)候都會(huì)伸出援助之手，而不需要任何報(bào)酬(在別人的農(nóng)場(chǎng)工作除外)。我們習(xí)慣于分享食物和任何我們有的東西。
我在這里最感激的是，每當(dāng)我過(guò)生日，當(dāng)我出去的時(shí)候，人們都會(huì)向我打招呼, 而我甚至沒(méi)有告訴任何人這是我的生日。
From that experience, I’ve realized that that kind of life living in the city isn't for me.
So what's my ideal life?
You could guess.
My ideal life would be living somewhere away from the city but not too far that it becomes inconvenient, be financially stable, have businesses, and probably adopt kids as I don't really see myself getting a partner.
Of course, I still need to live in the city in the future for work and to make some of my dreams become a reality.
But settling in the rural place when I retire is definitely a must-thing for me.
作為一個(gè)在這種生活中長(zhǎng)大的孩子，我很開心，但我也對(duì)生活在城市里感到好奇。所以我決定在城里讀高中。就像其他任何城市一樣，這里熙熙攘攘，噪音太大，人們太不友好，太自由了，我不喜歡這里。我大部分時(shí)間呆在家里，只有上學(xué)時(shí)才出去。大多數(shù)時(shí)候，我都被別人冷落了，所以我也懶得表現(xiàn)得友好和外向。
從那次經(jīng)歷中，我意識(shí)到那種住在城市里的生活不適合我。
那么，我的理想生活是什么？
你可以猜到。
我的理想生活應(yīng)該是住在遠(yuǎn)離城市的地方，但不要太遠(yuǎn)，那樣會(huì)帶來(lái)不便，經(jīng)濟(jì)穩(wěn)定，有生意，可能還會(huì)領(lǐng)養(yǎng)孩子，因?yàn)槲矣X(jué)得自己找不到伴侶。
當(dāng)然，我將來(lái)仍然需要住在城市里工作，讓我的一些夢(mèng)想成為現(xiàn)實(shí)。
但退休后在農(nóng)村定居對(duì)我來(lái)說(shuō)絕對(duì)是必須的。
My idea life is a life where I earn big money for less number of hours worked. I do not believe in this “work hard day and night until you die” lifestyle.
I earn good money, I work less number of hours, I keep my expenses minimum and I enjoy life. And added to this - I work with whomsoever I like, in the manner I like and only on those terms and conditions I feel are applicable to me.
Now with regards to YOUR IDEAL LIFE….This is what I can recommend:
Find a day, date and time when you are all alone and no one will disturb you
Take a note book, pen and sext a nice spot to sit and think
Do not have any smartphone, internet or friend or anyone near you
Sit down and ask yourself what (realistically) is your ideal life
Be truthful, honest, practical and logical in your answers
Once you have this answer - then start being specific & by specific I mean super specific with your answers
Then focus on finding out all the steps to achieve this lifestyle - the good, the bad and the ugly
Ask yourself what are you willing to do right now (as in now) and consistently every single day to achieve this life
Start doing it immediately.
If you do this consistently - you will be well on your way to achieve success and yes, live your ideal life.
Remember - life is not all about working 24/7.
Its about living those moments fully and meaningfully.
我的理想生活是這樣的生活：我用更少的工作時(shí)間賺大錢。我不相信這種“日以繼夜努力工作直到死”的生活方式。
我掙錢多，工作時(shí)間少，開支少，我享受生活。除此之外，我還與我喜歡的任何人合作，以我喜歡的方式，只在我覺(jué)得對(duì)我適用的條款和條件下工作。
現(xiàn)在關(guān)于你的理想生活，以下是我的建議：
找一個(gè)你獨(dú)自一人的日子、日期和時(shí)間，沒(méi)有人會(huì)打擾你
拿一本筆記本，一支筆，選擇一個(gè)好地方坐下來(lái)思考
身邊沒(méi)有智能手機(jī)、網(wǎng)絡(luò)、朋友或其他人
坐下來(lái)問(wèn)問(wèn)自己（現(xiàn)實(shí)地）你的理想生活是什么
回答時(shí)要真實(shí)、誠(chéng)實(shí)、務(wù)實(shí)、合乎邏輯
一旦你有了這個(gè)答案，那么就開始具體化; 我所說(shuō)的具體化是指你的答案非常具體
然后集中精力找出實(shí)現(xiàn)這種生活方式的所有步驟——好的、壞的和丑陋的
問(wèn)問(wèn)自己，為了實(shí)現(xiàn)這種生活目標(biāo)，你現(xiàn)在（如現(xiàn)在）和每天都堅(jiān)持做些什么
馬上開始行動(dòng)。
如果你堅(jiān)持這樣做，你就會(huì)在通往成功的路上走得很好，是的，過(guò)上你理想的生活。
記住——生活不全是全天候工作。
關(guān)鍵是要活得充實(shí)而有意義。